do you let your family dating ex-drugs addict...

Netherlands
March 17, 2007 4:19pm CST
My aunt ask my opinion about her daughter has been dating ex-drug addict. To be honest, I still haven't answered her questions. What do you think ??? Would you let any member of your family dating ex-drugs addict ??? What if they're getting serious and talking about married...
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• Singapore
17 Mar 07
cut the guy some slack... you just said EX!! if he goes back to his old ways, it's a different story... but now the word is EX ADDICT... it's the past... everyone got a past... give the guy support to show all of you care... this way he can keep his nose clean and will be determined to...
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• Netherlands
13 May 07
That's true....he was an EX. But that marked stays on. And now it's just a matter of how he can win my aunt trust and keep himself clean in good or bad times. Thank you for your response !!!
• United States
17 Mar 07
Well I dont think I could stop someone from seeing who they wanted, I could choose to be okay with it because its their life or choose to not be okay with it and not get along or have a good relationship because of it.
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• Netherlands
29 Mar 07
That's true, I couldn't stop her seeing the guy she likes. But her mother surely wants her children to have a happy life and have a good partner to be in her eyes. And I asked her not only to ask my opinion but to some other opinion because I don't want to give her advice that I might regret it later on. Thank you for your respond !!!
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
4 Aug 07
I'd say alot would depend on whether they are still doing it or have turned their lives around. Some ppl make mistakes and realize it and straighten out...while some never learn and pull others down with them. If he's straightened up then I'd say if she wants to give him a chance then do it, but if he's still doing it or living that lifestyle then I'd talk to her and try to reason with her. Good luck!! LIVE IN PEACE