is my husband right when he is upset.

@aissha (2036)
India
March 18, 2007 6:32am CST
it may sounfd funny to u but it is true ,my toilet flush tank is leaking for months now ,i tried at my level but couldn't help.told my husband in all possible manner requested to get it done as i 'm not very fond of leaky toilets ,he kept ignored ,on fri night he promised me that he is definitely going to do it ,till 1 pm he ignored though i reminded him, then it was too much and i simply called my mom and told her about him (they hv good relationship) he overheard it . he immediately got up and he got the job done, but since yesterday he is upset and all my efforts to make him okay have gone in vain. now is he right while he is doing this ?????? what should i do???? pls,pls.advice me
4 responses
@feralwoman (2199)
• Australia
19 Mar 07
I know whenever I ask my husband to fix something for me he does it in his own sweet time, bless him. If I nag at him, he just switches off and it will take him even longer to fix it. I think you made a mistake telling your mother about this. What goes on between husband and wife should stay between them and not involve a third party. It's a shame he overheard it as it must have made him feel really bad. I guess he has a right to be upset, but how long has he been upset at you - a day? If you've apologised to him, then he's taking this a bit far I think. Just try ignoring him for a while and hopefully he'll come round soon. Good luck! lol
@aissha (2036)
• India
20 Mar 07
by this time he is ok and back to normal. i'll see now that matter is within lomits thnx friend .
@samrat16 (2442)
• India
19 Mar 07
Wait for two three days everything will be alright and he will forget all this drama . You should try to act like you are not noticing he is upset and leave little time for him to realise that it's not that big issue.
@aissha (2036)
• India
19 Mar 07
good suggestion,
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
18 Mar 07
Oh he got upset because you told on him,he will get over it..No it isn't right,Just don't do anything and stop bugging him,sometime we like to pout,and he is the pouting kind so give him some pouting time,and just leave him alone. You did all you could do to get him in a good mood,so just go on and give him time and it will all blow over...MEN yuk
@aissha (2036)
• India
19 Mar 07
thnx friend,i hope so,it will be faster.he is 'improving 'but little.
• India
18 Mar 07
just be cool.. he will eventually calm down after he realises his fault