Do you truly Love your Husband?

United States
March 18, 2007 3:49pm CST
I have seen so many times a couple who are married and you can tell there is no love between them anymore. I know times can get rough, but where does the love go? My husband is everything to me. I love him with every ounce and I know he feels the same. I am just wondering if some people just get married to get married and why? I don't understand how you can be with someone when they make you unhappy let alone marry someone because of any other reason than loving them. I know the man I married will be my life partner. My vows are sacred and I stand true by them.
5 responses
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I feel the same way about my husband. Sure there are times when we have our spats and ups and downs, that goes along with marriage, but when we made our vows I meant them and I still mean them. I love my husband with all of my heart and soul. We just celebrated our wedding anniversary this past December. We have been married for 23 years and I look forward to many, many more. I feel like too many young people today get married thinking that if things get too rough we can always get divorce and that is so sad.
@deesamps (653)
• United States
23 Mar 07
Good for you. I too am in love with my husband. He is my husband, lover, and best friend. He is always there for me through good times and bad. There is noone I would rather spend my life with then him.
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
19 Mar 07
yes, i love him with all of my been. but there was a time we had driffeted apart and it was lonely. but we where able to bring back the fun and adventure into our lives again. personal things can get in the way,work and trying your best to make ends meat can also drive ones lover away. but always make sure to bring it back before its way too late. communications is also a great way to work through things instead of holding them back. we are happyier than ever and love one another till the end. best of luck to you too redstrawberry113
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@kleo_23 (104)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
how long have you been married anyway? i do belive in some point in a married life, most often love is lost/ changed somehow. what keeps the marriage is having respect for their spouses, by keeping their vows even if at some point you lose attraction or feel attracted to somebody else but being aware that you are already married will keep youfrom getting lost. there was a point in my life i had been into deep thinking about how much love i have for my husband especially when problems arises, i get so confused. to make it simple, i don't measure how much cause love cannot be quantified anyway. i prefer to be more realistic that though how much a couple love each other, for some reasons, they fall apart. lucky for you if you have marriage made in heaven. what i do is just love him more each day and enjoy the campanionship while its there so that whether its made to last long or not, i will feel no regrets.
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
18 Mar 07
you are lucky
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