your bf/husband and his ex-wife(wives)

March 18, 2007 5:33pm CST
how do you deal with your husband's ex-wifes or babymamas, especially if they make everything complicated
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@kurtbiewald (2627)
• United States
18 Mar 07
women always make everything complicated, they just like to live that way or something, then even when you want to and can solve issues they don't even want to hear anything about it. The mostly just like the sounds of their own voices I think, just taking for the satisfaction of it. Not so much to accomplish things. It took me a long time to figure that out, after being told a few times. babymamas or whoever, I think if the exes are kind and respectful, welcome them, if not, tell em to go away
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• United States
19 Mar 07
Well, kurtbiewald, I have to disagree with you. NOT ALL WOMEN make everything complicated. Maybe the women you've dealt with but not every woman is that way. I know from family members who are in situations that have to deal with ex's baby mama's and dad's and have had to fight in court but than there are some that deal with each other and treat each other with respect because you have to think about the kids first not the issues you have between each other and just get over it! The kids come first!
@kylanie (1205)
• United States
18 Mar 07
well me and my husband's ex-wife sometimes we get along with each other but other times we ave our days expecially when it comes to the kids she says if her 22yr.old daughter comes up here and helps her dad and we give her $10.00 and a $15.00 calling card we are taking advantage of her I can ohnestly tell this story me and my husband and my son went to my mom and dad's house we eat dinner and she did not tell us she wanted to go back to our house she went to the van and called her mom and the mom called my dad's house and cussed him out. and then called us.
20 Mar 07
see? things like that, when sometimes you're not even doing anything wrong, but the kids say or do somethin so the ex comes back all mad at you when is really them not being honest or not communicating? i guess that's just the way it is