Will you not to divorce for your children?
By lbbaby
@lbbaby (489)
China
March 18, 2007 8:12pm CST
If you have a very serious problem with your husband or wife, and you cannot come to an agreement, but you have children, will you not to divorce for them?Because they don't have a complete family when you divorce.It doed harm to them. However, meanwhile you feel so bad with your husband or wife.How will you deal with the problem?
2 responses
@kleo_23 (104)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
i will go for divorce if the situation with my partner is totally unbearable especially if involves physical abuse. but if its not that bad, i will stick to the marriage. meantime, while you are still together, its not good to let your kids see that you are quarelling for it will not have good effect on your children. if they are old enough to understand then explain why you have to get a divorce and assure them that whatever happens, they will be loved and taken cared of even w/ separate lives.
there are so many people i knew from broken families but still managed to have successful life. perhaps its matter on how you up bring you kids to have positive outlook in life despite bad things that has happened in your family
@gramskaren (661)
• United States
19 Mar 07
My kids are grown and gone but if we would of had serious problems that would cause more harm than good to the kids then yes I would say it is best to go your own separate ways. I have seen people stay together for their kids and it ends up hurting the kids and them hating one or both parents for it.
