hard to be serious in my love life..

@jlo228 (170)
Philippines
March 18, 2007 8:48pm CST
I feel so hard especially in the time i'm gonna answer my suitor.. i don't know why.. maybe I'm afraid to be hurt someday.. coz I've been on that situation, can you help me and give me some advice in how to trust him or how to trust my feelings?
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@kancil (43)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 07
My view to have successful Christian dating is.. 1) Faith 2) Honesty 3) Pressure - Biggest source of un uncomfortable time during a date is when someone is pressuring the other..so u know what to do .. 4) Treat Others as you would want to be treated; - is Golden Rule to success in Christian dating... 5) Don't force a relationship I hope you will find that special someone...cheers :)
@jlo228 (170)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
wow.. nice Christian are you... thanks for your great idea.. hope i can do that.. thanks..
@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
19 Mar 07
to me trust is something you get slowly little by little be slow to trust be slow to erode trust I was just watching a show on Feynman, he said think in percentages, thats kid of how I do it its like it goes 60% 70% 80%, then somebody lies or throws it away or something, then 75%, then 80% then 85% I do it like that we all work out who to trust and who not to trust, babies and kids are very good at that because they have to be
@jlo228 (170)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
wow! thank your for your great idea.. you really spent time for me to post it. thanks.. hope we can be as good friends.
@czaroma (136)
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
Loving someone is a risk. You risk falling in love and getting hurt. But eventually, you grow and you become stronger in the end. Give yourself time to heal from whatever past experience you had before entering into a new relationship.