getting married out of gratitude...

Philippines
March 18, 2007 10:55pm CST
my friend's brother who is married and have 3 grown up kids impregnate a one night stand girl working in one of government's owned corporation. in order to keep her job, otherwise, she will be fired of getting pregnant out of wedlock, someone has to save her. you know what my friend's brother's solution? asking my friend to marry the girl to save her job. of course my friend got dismayed in his brother's unfaithful behavior. two things came to his mind: to tell her sister-in-law about it or to keep the secret between the 3 of them. he is contemplating on it. in you were in my friend's shoe, what do you think is the best move to make? i need your opinion to augment my friend's anxiety. so he could choose the best solution that he will not regret for the rest of his life....
2 responses
@gsnarayanan (1704)
• India
19 Mar 07
I agree with biznizman01. Why should your frien be forced to do a mistake of marrying a girl who has alrady committed a mistake. It is for the brother of your friend to sortout the problem.
• Philippines
19 Mar 07
your friend should not feel obligated to marry to girl period. its his brother and the girl's problem. tell your friend to say no and let the brother and the girl find for another solution. and why would the girl get fired? in my country an employee don't get fired because she is pregnant even out of wedlock may it be in a government or private corporation. is it in the law that a girl will get fired if found pregnant while still single in your country? if so, a problem can not be solve by creating another mistake. if your friend marry the girl this will create a new set of problems. advise your friend well. I don't think its right to own a mistake that he did not commit.