Marriage - When is enough just to much
• Delhi, India
19 Mar 07
Tx_Wahm, I believe relationship is not a game of tennis, where you can draw a line. Relationships are built on the basis of understandings and adjustments, patience and forbearance. I think adjustment be made from both the partners in relationship. To make or breat the relationship, you will have to evaluate yourself how much adjustment is made by you.......do you make adjustment on each occassion....? How many times your partner makes the adjustments?.........If you feel and find after evaluation that it is YOu who is making adjustments on more than 90% occasions, then you may think about quitting the relationship.
19 Mar 07
Marriage is a lifetime vow. It is a commitment, not something you just get fed up with. If you are having problems, work on them. If you need an unbiased person to help, go see a marriage counselor. In my opinion, unless he is abusing you in any way, the marriage can be saved. Do what it takes to make it last. Divorce means quitting and you should never quit until you have tried everything.