Ego gets the better of us in most of our relationship

India
March 19, 2007 10:49am CST
I have found that everytime me and my spouse have an argument about something our ego tend to clash and we end up trying to get the better of one another. Is there a way out?
2 responses
@tyees1 (15)
• United States
19 Mar 07
This is for all the men out there. Never argue, you will never win because they will never stop talking and even if they do years later the argument will come up again because they never forget. Don't get me wrong I love my wife but I have learned that being smooth and avoiding direct frontal confrontation is best. Just say yes dear and wait for a better time!Now she knows where I stand on moral issues and knows that there is no flexing there and before we got married that was established.
• United States
19 Mar 07
well your 1/2 way out... at least you are aware of whats going on between yous, - I don't really know what will work but you could just try letting him get his way for a while, even if it kills you, lol, to see if things change, and you could let him know you feel this about your relationship and get him to talk about it with you, but I understand what you mean, - i think I was the same with my husband, now ex. so good luck and I'm sure you will be OK, see I didn't realize what a raving nag I was!!!! Since you do your marraige can be saved.