What's Your Say On Cheating? Adultery? Having Affairs?

An affair to me means the instant end to a relationship. It is something that can't be forviven. I have never done it but have had it done to me and it is really horrible.

I don't condone cheating at all. I also think that it takes two to tango, but in the end it is the attatched person's fault for cheating. I don't care how much someone comes after you, if you truly love and trust your significant other then you wouldn't cheat. My husband has had many women through themselves at him over the years but he never cheated. It is all about love, honesty and trust. I also think that if you cheat then the relationship was on shaky grounds to begin with. I have never and would never cheat. If I ever seriously thought about it then I would realize that my relationship has trouble and talk to my significant other, and end the relationship first.

CHEATING destroys the trust u have for someone and trust is the hardest thing to gain again.I hate cheating coz its not only ur partner that gets hurt,its the people around u like your children,your parents and such. I equate Cheating to SELFISHNESS.

When a person decides to get married, everyone presumes that he/she has finally found the person who shall put to rest the seeking days. This is the reason why we find it to our dismay to know that a married person goes around with another one. If the relationship is still at the going steady stage, I will understand that they still have the chance to have a change of heart, but definitely, not the married ones. And now, everyone wants that divorce law passed in addition to the annulment alternative which is now in force in our country. I don't understand anymore why they ever get married.

Well they do like the idea or the adventure of having such affairs. I have an eight year healthy relationship with my boyfriend and never did I entertain such thoughts. Its never right to go after someone who is already committed to someone.. Its being rude and it does not give real joy and happiness.

yeah I did it I told her I was going to do it and why, and then I told her when I did it didn't get ANY for like 4 months not worth it anyway, I think sometimes , when or if you can't get any, within the relationship, for a long time, and it isn't getting fixed then affairs are good I think always be really careful about disease and psych issues too always try to be nice too