Blended Family Counseling

I married a man with 2 kids. I don't know that it would have benefited us much, because we're on the same page when it comes to raising and disciplining them. But both kids have been in individual counseling because of issues with their mom, and it's been beneficial to them. There's no harm in trying it out - you will probably learn a lot!

I think this is an exelent idea and could even help you and your boy friend as to how to react with each others children !I know a few folks who could have benefited from such a thing in the past!

In almost all circumstances, I think counseling is a good option. I mean really, what do you have to lose? (other than money, and when you weigh money against family, it's easy to see what comes out on top) My suggestion: give it a try and see how it goes.

This is an excellent idea! It's much better to be proactive rather than reactive. It would benefit both girls and the two of you as well. I'm in a blended family situation and it's been extremely difficult. I really think we could have used family counselling. Even if you think you have all the parenting issues figured out, there may be some new sibling troubles to deal with. The 3 yr old is used to being the center of your attention. The 9 yr old isn't used to having a little one around 24/7. I wish you all the best of luck!