ADVISE PLEASE !!!! I am in love with a Married Man

I don´t want to sound rude or anything, but what about "married man" you didn´t understand. In my opinion, you should leave him live his life if you really "love" him as you say. Getting into his life may ruin his marriage. You should not even consider a married man as an option. There are plenty of single men out there. You will find the right one eventually. Be patient.

You have to stay out of his life until he sorts it out. You cannot be the reason he leaves his marriage, and you cannot be the rebound relationship. Either one of those things would define your relationship, which is not healthy. He needs space, and you need to back off. Maybe if he didn't have you to distract him, he could focus on his wife and realize he is happier than he thinks. After all, he married her for a REASON. You are being selfish and unfair to make yourself available to him when he is committed to someone else. Go about your life - and leave him alone. If he leaves his wife and the dust settles, you can be available to him. Only then.