is it love or is it fraud????

@cute125 (101)
March 20, 2007 10:22am CST
There is someone I love very much but he seems to be focussed on money and material possessions. he is saying that he will only be with me if i get him an apartment a car and a business to work in. I love him very much do you think i should trust him or is it just a fraud. Should i play along and see what he does. Should I cut my loses and run. I really dont know what to do can someone advise me if they have been in a similar situation.
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3 responses
• India
20 Mar 07
If someone loves you for your money then its not love for sure. There are many chances that if you'll marry to such a person, the relationship will break. Beacuase the material asked by your lover is mortal and love is something do to with trust and immortatlity. Love does not vanish as materials do.
• United States
20 Mar 07
Um, this person seems more than just focused on money and possesions, he seems hell bent on using you into the ground. Get out while you can. Love can overcome a lot but not this. Don't ever be with anyone who gives you ultimatums, especially of this type. Don't usually just throw out advice but seemed needed here. Run, Run far far away!!!
@kareng (42974)
• United States
20 Mar 07
Run as fast as you can away from this guy. He is a user and is just trying to get what he can out of you. He is not in love with you.