priorities

i still believe that everything has a logical reason.. if his reasons are acceptable for me i would understand why i'm not number one. if i don't feel that i'm important i would just stop and think if it's just somethin i feel at the moment or has it been going on for a long time already and why? and maybe his way of showing that i'm important to him is different from what i want him to show. it's still his life, i want him to run it his way so that it won't me he would blame if it would turn out bad. hehehe! you would need to prioritize your partner when you're getting married and specially when you're married already! but if you're just boyfriend girlfriend, thre are still a lot of things you would need to prioritize aside from your partner.

Priorites change all the time in life but if you are not close to being on top of the list and he is putting a lot of other things ahead of you in life i would talk to him about it and hope he attempts to change things around, At least set a night or two aside just for the two of you and on the other days he can do his other priorities

This would be a serious sign that things are not working right, if it was always like this; then the choice was wrong from the beginning and it's time to move on and walk out before being dumped or just continue being "used". But if it's a new trend in the relationship, then it's time for a talk and to see what's going wrong, sometimes it's some problems that can be easily fixed with some love and understanding.

I would think things over if I am not happy with the way he prioritizes things. I need to weigh matters and see if staying in the relationship is still worth it.