Help with a dream!!! Any connections you can see??

United States
March 20, 2007 12:13pm CST
I just woke up from a horrible dream. I'm a believer in analyzation, so if you are too, take a shot at this: I was on vacation, and the tour group was split in two. My fiancee and I were sleeping in seperate cabins because we were arguing. Everything that happened within the groups was opposite. For instance, whatever bad happened to one person in my group would happen to someone in the other group, except in a good way. There was a man that carried his dead child everywhere in my group, and the other group had a handful of happy children in it. There was a part of the tour in which a beastly cat animal followed me, within range for me to feel his breath, the whole way to the train and the tour guides had to stand by with shotguns in case it attacked me, and the other group got to be picked up in a whole other location. Someone was crushed by a merry-go-round in my group but the guy in the other group walked away from it with ice cream. During one part of the dream, we were resting at night and I was with my aunts and cousins and this one lady that works where I do. She started having Emily Rose convulsions (Emily Rose was excorcised). All of a sudden, unexplainable dents were showing up in the pillows and blankets around me, and then this shock when up my spine and stayed on my chest for a few moments, and it didn't feel bad--gave me goosebumps--but it was uncomfortable because I didn't know where it was coming from. My aunt was on her laptop talking to a dead person. She was excited when all this started happening because she believed the spiritual realm was real. When my finacee and I finally talked, he let me know that he cheated on me recently with a woman named Leslie he met at a restaurant and a man! Then, he proceeded to take a shower with his male friend. I was yelling and screaming at both of them and all he was doing was acting like he didn't care. It was night time by then, and the rest of the tour group was getting dropped off at my house. My mom and her soon to be husband both didn't see that anything was wrong with me at all , even though my cheeks were stained with tears. I didn't say anything, and went back into the house. My fiancee had a piece of paper with the girl's name and number on it, and started talking to me about her, even telling me to call her. Then he started talking about how I was never great in bed and he never truly loved me.
3 responses
@EagleEyes (646)
• United States
20 Mar 07
Hmmm....quite an interesting dream. I don't know but maybe it could mean that we all have choices in life to make, we can choose the right choice or the wrong choice. Sometimes we are even afraid to make the choice whether we think it's right or wrong. The cat could symbolize somebody in your life who wouldn't be happy with the choices you made, or the choice you will make and they will be breathing down your neck when you do. The children part I don't really get, maybe that some people have sadness while others have happiness, I don't know. The thing with the cheating, maybe it is just something you are afraid he may do, or you wonder if you are good enough for him. Know that you are a good person and don't doubt yourself. The part with your mom and dad not noticing your tears, could they be the ones that may not like your decisions you have made? This is definetly a complicated and confusing dream, but that is what I have got out of it. I could be wrong though, it's just the way I saw it.
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• United States
20 Mar 07
I love posting dreams to people who don't know me. It just proves how much our dreams really say about us. Thanks so much for your insight, it all makes perfect sense.
• United States
20 Mar 07
you're Welcome : )
• Singapore
23 Mar 07
No, I don't totally believe in analysis work. Not in relationships. The mind is full of guileful thoughts, not healthy for strengthening relationships. Real life is not so logical. Besides, one person's logic is another person's irrationality. Other than that, I believe in the duality of human nature. We not so much analyse our duality; we examine it as they are, good and bad, so that we don't feel one-up better or one-down worse off than the other. None of us is all-good or all-bad until we think that way and behave that way. Either way, there is intense suffering. If we can do that, it takes years of healthy exmaination, we stop playing 'mind games' with one another. It is not a comfortable place to be found in, vulnerability, but this is probably what we need to do with our partners or loved ones if we really wish to grow into matured people. Not 'cutting' one another off, but, just giving a 'hearing' no matter how bad a state we find ourselves in. Alas, few 'know' how to hear well... You may see some parallels in the concept of duality with your dream. It's in all of us. Examine them; acknowledge them; dont use them as grist for arguement or worse, as gossip material. There's more, but, I hope this might shed some insight into your current issue. :)
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• United States
24 Mar 07
you should be a psychologist :)
@tigerdragon (4297)
• Philippines
20 Mar 07
i believe that dreams do have some meanings in our everyday lives .they are our link to our conscious and the unconscious side of ourselves but i also believe in science in how our mind works.sorry, if i may have a different interpretation of why you have that kind of dream.here it goes: i believe that these are your pent up emotions for your boyfriend while you are in your conscious state which has not been dealt with. a resentment of sorts to the environment around which you detest but have never gave it a chance to express it that is why it is all manifesting itself in your dreams which is telling you to start adapting to the differences of the people or the world around you. you have to lighten up a little bit and try smiling to whatever comes your way.the more you delve on it the more it will hound you.i have came up with these conclusions basing from your previous postings concerning your boyfriend.i hope you won't take these interpretaions against me. it is just my personal observations.
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• United States
21 Mar 07
no, nothing against you at all :) you are in good graces anywhere in my discussions, i value your feedback and do think what you say is true. :)