FAT WOMAN vs. FIT WOMAN (sexy)

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My Girlfriend is fat and beautiful. I find her extra sexy. But as a man, i can't help to look at fit, sexy woman. I believe its natural for a man to do the same...(right guys?) Woman has the tendency to be insecure, specially fat ones... I dont understand why woman needs to be insecure when they have the man themselves? Do fatness really makes us got a low self esteem? If you are fat will you be insecure?