How far can you go?

Philippines
March 21, 2007 1:38am CST
Love. I can beg him on bent knee not to leave me. I don't see anything wrong with begging to get your way. If he doesn't want me anymore, at least I knew I loved him and it's not my fault that he's leaving.
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@tad1fan (3367)
• Canada
25 Mar 07
I've never had anyone leave,I was the one doing the leaving and as I went out the door I waved BUH-BYE!
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• India
21 Mar 07
The first thing my friend, would be to check out what the problem actually is. Try your level best to try it out, maximum chances are there of a misunderstanding, so try to clear it out over a cup of coffee, face to face. In case if you find yourself guilty then do nothing but ask for forgiveness and be true, also try to convince him. If he loves you he'll come back. It's only in extream case that he can't forgive you. Expressing your love is most important as your love cannot make that out always, so timely do speak up.
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Mar 07
Im going to disagree with you on that one I wouldnt beg for any mans love. If someone doesnt want me that okay with me but dont beg for his love.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
21 Mar 07
no it's not. There is no since in begging. I learned that same lesson a few years ago.
@mssnow (9484)
• United States
21 Mar 07
Begging wont work if they really want to go. However fighting to keep them might make them feel you really love them. Maybe its a test to see how much you love them. I would try to fight before totally giving up. but there is a difference between fighting and begging.Just remember though if he feels its over you cant change his mind.
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@beaniegdi (1963)
21 Mar 07
It is hard when you are in love with someone and they want to break up with you, it can make you act a bit crazy. However I have learned over the years that how you feel for one person you can feel for another, those feelings come from within you and that is how you know you can feel them again. When love ends be kind to yourself as it is a sad time but as soon as you can get out with friends, look after yourself and set about meeting a new person.
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@rainbow (6761)
21 Mar 07
Nah, if he wants to go I'd let him, begging only makes them stay a little longer through guilt and pity, it he really wants to he'll go regardless so why worry. I wouldn't show myself up to a man who didn't care enough to want to stay.
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@sherinek (3320)
• United States
21 Mar 07
If you can think like that, why beg on bent knees, i wonder. I will never beg not only for love, but for anything in that matter. I will try to talk to him, i will tell him how much i love him. If he doesnt love me, his loss (LOL). I am too good for him. I will have a wallowing period, then i will look at another. I will definitely have the love i had for him in my mind. But i will not beg him for sure.
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@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
21 Mar 07
I have to disagree with you on that one I wouldnt beg for any mans love.LOL If he doesnt want me thats fine but dont beg someone to love you.
@sidoney (1033)
• Jamaica
22 Mar 07
you are just opening your self up for some serious using begging like that now when some one wants to leave if you cannot talk it out its best to leave cause if you don't then that person will find a lot of ways to use and abuse you
• India
21 Mar 07
did u experienced this in life? while on the topic u posted i would simply kill my girlfriend if she betrays me, and she uses me for her personal. i would finally take a pledge to make her realize what she had lost.i never quit.
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@yvonne1968 (1063)
• United States
21 Mar 07
i would never ever beg someone to stay. If they want to leave its more then likely the end, and i might want them to go. Even if i loved someone i wouldnt beg them to stay. I would be heart broken for awhile but i would get over it.
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