do you want "younger or an older partner",..what do you think is the best

Philippines
March 21, 2007 2:00am CST
some women prefer to have an older partner because they want to be treated gently. me? i also want an older partner like my husband because he is mature enough to carry our relationship (not old enough to be my dad =) ..how about you do you? "OLDER OR YOUNGER PARTNER?"
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@maryannemax (12168)
• Sweden
21 Mar 07
i used to be in relationships where i am always a year older than my exes. thinking that age does not really matter at all, i thought relationships with them will turn out okey. but later, i realized that such men are so immature. instead of taking care of their girlfriends, it turns out to be that they are the ones being taken cared of all the time. them being immature and always trying to figure out new things in their lives, break down the relationship at some point. so, after my last relationship, i decided to give my heart a rest for a year and it's when i met my boyfriend now. he's 2 years older than me and i am so surprised how he babies me. how he takes care of me. and how he loves me so much. he'll be my last boyfriend for he'll soon be my husband. i don't know about others but on my experiences, it's better to be with a man who's older than i am.
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
i can see the happines on you..stay happy! go girl! =)
@ma_lorena (178)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
i prefer to have an old partner.. coz it feels like you are a princess with him. older man is much caring and loving, they say.
@maryannemax (12168)
• Sweden
21 Mar 07
yep. true. my boyfriend is just 2 years older than me but he does treat me as his princess and even calls me as one.
@sarah22 (3980)
• United States
21 Mar 07
me personally have always dated guys older than me. i would not mind a younger guy but only younger by 1 year and no more.
@dexterous21 (1180)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
I prefer to have a boyfriend older than me because I thin very mature. I can't fugure out the relarionship if my boyfriend is younger than me. It says that women mature fast compared to men. I love talking social issues so it is better to have a mature boyfriend.
• India
21 Mar 07
For me both....ha..ha...jj....i prefer same age as like me....!!
• United States
21 Mar 07
i prefer men to be at least 5 years older than me. they are more "grounded in reality", understand what compromise means, are past the "party" time of their lives.