what do you think is worth doing?

I was once told that if you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart. If you find someone else inlove with you and you don't love him,feel honored that love came and called at your door,but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage. Do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how yo deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same pain and joy even if our lives and ways are different. If you fall inlove with someone and he falls inlove with you and then love chooses to leave,do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame. Let it go. What is meant to be will come.

Both are not worth doing! Coz its really hard to love somebody then she dont love you back.. It is also hard to have somebody who's loving you without asking love in return coz its unfair not only for you're lover but also for you. Why? Coz your having doubts about on what do u really feels about it. You are not allowing yourself to feel th right feeling.. I wouldnt choose any of these two, about on what is really worth doing.

I have to agree with the first poster, love often sneaks up on you when you aren't even looking for it which ends up being the best time. Sometimes people get so caught up in looking and being sad over the fact that they don't have someone, that they miss out on what's infront of them. You just have to be true to yourself and don't over analyze the situation, it will come when the time is right for you.

If you think that if someone loves you have to think twice. Be wise to chose between love and infatuation because if you are not sure you will risk your life getting hurt. I know life is all about making choices but when in love you have to make the right person. Don't rush into love, the right person will come searching for you when the right time comes So m dear keep your fingers crossed and enjoy life... :-)) ;)

Listen to me PLEASE!!! Wait until you are in love. If it is meant to be, you won't have to wait for them to love you back. Don't even think about love. I know that sounds crazy but when you fall in love it shouldn't be because you were seeking. When the right person comes along you won't have to wait for them to love you. You will fall in love together. If you go along with the one who loves you and you don't quite love back it will end in disaster. It is not the 1800's anymore. People shouldn't have to make themselves love the other one. I hope you take my advice, but if you don't I still wish you well. Follow your heart and remember "True Love Has Two Sides and Two Heart Beats".

truly to say, if i love someone and will never get some,more or less,love in return, then i will quit. i have to move on.there is not just one tree in the forest.