i cannot express my feelings

India
March 21, 2007 5:38am CST
i dont but it happens most of the times i try to express my feelings of but i cant do so I m in love with a girl she is very humble and charming she is very frank whenever i try to express my feelings i change the topic becoz i m afraid that my friendship will break pls help me out i want to propose her but i also dont want to break the friendship of our child hood pls help me urgently
4 responses
@tesmel (44)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
dear harsh, i understand how you feel... you are afraid to lose the friendship because she was your friend since childhood. you might be afraid also of being rejected. you have a very high respect to this girl that any wrong move that you do will definitely break the friendship. but harsh, it is still worth the try... what i have said are just part of your worries and anxieties. you've known this girl for so long now. i guess you know how to please her and gently (slowly but surely) tell her your feelings. you can begin showing affection to her through simple things and actions. love is more meaningful if you show the girl how much you love her. make her feel that you love her even without saying any word.. just act.
@gharinder (2044)
• India
22 Mar 07
its very natural when we fell in love, we dont want to loose that person at any cost and this very fear prevents us from expressing our true feelings, as you say she is humble, so definitely will understand your feelings, and u should express your love for her before its too late, and just leave the decision on her whethere she loves you as a friend or you are really very important for him, dont fear to express your feelings .
• United States
22 Mar 07
If this girl is as wonderful as you think. There should be no problem in you telling her how you feel. Friendship is very important. But Love prevails all. Do you know if she feels anything for you? Have you ever talked about her plans for the future? Is she a student or is she already working on her career? Does she want a family right now? Let me tell you. My husband was my best friend. But deep down I always knew he was the one for me. I loved his way of thinking and his way of being. You never know...that is why you should go for it! I will keep you in my prayers. (if you don't mind) Good Luck. Isenia
@aaa0126 (205)
• Philippines
21 Mar 07
hi there!there's no harm done when trying.. if your intentions are good,and as you are saying she's a frined of yours,,many of relationship started with friendship,right?if you got the nerve to tell her now,then tell her,but then maybe she's just waiting for you to say it to her..but if she'll turn you down,pls don't get mad and end up your friendship just like that coz it's not appropriate!