NEVER FALL IN LOVE!!

India
October 17, 2006 5:19pm CST
what you think about this..never fall in love..is it because LOVE HURTS??what you think and why?
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15 responses
@ilse72 (1450)
• United States
18 Oct 06
I can't imagine never falling in love! True, it sometimes hurts but most times, it feels absolutely wonderful. Nothing worthwhile is ever totally painless so you have to put it in perspective. Everything, even love, has its ups and downs. But, it truly is far better to have loved and lost than to never love at all. Love is an ultimate high and everyone should enjoy the experience...no matter how it ends up. Besides, why be pessimistic? Love can also be glorious, wonderful, fantastic and will take your breath away. Enjoy the experience!
• India
18 Oct 06
thanks friend..your views are impressive..
@ilse72 (1450)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Thank you! I am still very much in love with my husband of 34 years and I could not imagine what life would have been like without his love. Love is a risk...but so is everything in life. You dive in head first and enjoy the ride. If you are really lucky, the ride will last your entire life. :)
• India
18 Oct 06
but dear there r cases having 10 or 15 years of love and lived together and one fine day anyone or both say "good bye and take care" to each others..and after that they supressed the pain inside them and living..what you say about that?
@vipul20044 (5794)
• India
20 Oct 06
Sometimes you have to cross bed of thorns to go across flowers A rose is always found with thorns Life is like a stair, you cannot jump you have to walk each step and if you fail you wont keep urself off from walking It isnt just love that hurts Friendships hurt relations hurt there are many thing that hurt but the true winner is that who emerges out of it! When there is love there is emotions when there are emotions it will hurt and sting
@perugu (5279)
• India
20 Oct 06
hi,do fall in love..when it fails... don't loose control on your self..
@chalmette69 (3007)
• United States
20 Oct 06
I wouldn't want to live without love, I have a wonderful husband and with out him, I don't think I would be the person I am today, You have to get hurt sometimes to find that right person, the person you belong with.
@exodamus (1625)
• India
20 Oct 06
Love doesnt hurt. It is only the infatuation thing that hurts. If it is true love then there is no hurt even in breakups there is boud to be areason for it, which bot will understand. So falling in"LOVE" is really a very boon.IF you happen to fall in "LOVE" then you will know the difference between love and infatuation. Because most of the time it may not be love it is opnly an attraction that each feel.
• Australia
20 Oct 06
Haha... I also never fall in love.. I guess I'm still afraid to be hurt..or maybe, I simply cannot believe that there's someone who could fall in love with me
@HomerBundy (1325)
• United States
18 Oct 06
i think it is natural to fall in love...you can try to control you mind, but your heart you cannot fool...
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
20 Oct 06
I'm the right person for that. I won't fall in love ever again. It hearts, it's bad, it makes you cry. I would like to start sympathising people more though!
@diju03 (534)
20 Oct 06
you are not right. you have to experience
• India
18 Oct 06
never fall in love untill and unless u can contol all your emotions and u know the real meaning of love... ofcourse love hurts..it hurts really hard tat some ppl cannot resist it atall...why do u wanna kill urselfs for a gal who never loved u nor loves u?? and someother fools kill those gals who dont love them...i say its not love atall its called sadisam.... love exists only when both of them understand eachother and can live a life exchanging all the emotions they comethrough in life.... i advice to all those[be it a gal or boy] who dont know wat is love tat NEVER DARE TO FAll IN LOVE untill and unless u knw wats the real meaning of love... all is well but who will listen to my words?
@Schubler (1525)
• Romania
20 Oct 06
Nice question... my opinion is that the freedom i had was better than falling in love again with the same person... I hate when this happnes... I`m planning to move as far away as possible from here because this is one of a kind feeling I have... I love her and I hate her at the same time... I don`t want to be with here because I don`t like the kind of person she is... but I love her for being her... This is weird and I never ever wnat to fall in love again!!!
• United States
18 Oct 06
Don't give up there is true love out there for everyone. But, God gives us the ultimate love Agape Love unconditional love. So, just hold on and wait on God to send him the one promised to you from the begining. God Bless
• Bermuda
20 Oct 06
love is NOT suppose to HURT !!!! But unfortunetly, it does and i have been hurt in love real bad so i know the true extent of love hurting, but when love is shared between 2 people that love each other it is a beautiful thing
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
18 Oct 06
There's a Trisha Yearwood song called, "I would have loved you anyway" and there's an old Broadway musical song called, "I still believe in love" and both apply here. I would encourage anyone to not away from the possibility of love just because there might be pain. There might be pain but there might also be joy and wonder and fulfillment.
@bhbirdie6 (1765)
• United States
18 Oct 06
I've heard people say love hurts and then I've heard people say love isn't supposed to hurt. Both make sense to me. I don't think there's a good reason to not fall in love at all. Go for it!