is love really sweeter on the second time around???
By edward13
@edward13 (130)
Philippines
March 22, 2007 12:00am CST
it's been a year since i was suffering from pains which my ex bf had gave me...it was really hard for me to get over him, he was the first guy who taught me how to love. years of sleepless nights and days.i even think of committing suicide....
last week, we accidentally met in a mall and he approached me and ask for my new phone number, since then we were talking till dawn in the phone, and we're dating for the last two days...he's asking for another chance for our relationship...i still love him, but i am afraid to experience the same pain again...!!
if you'll be on my situation..what will you do?
2 responses
@NiKe_bOi (165)
• Singapore
22 Mar 07
whats the reason of breaking up? well.. if u still love him.. why not?? every other relationship will oso feel the same risk of breaking up and feeling the pain.. but this time round.. you know that this guy is yours.. one and only.. so do grab hold of him and don let him go..
@NiKe_bOi (165)
• Singapore
22 Mar 07
Hmmm.. i think seriously.. eveyr man love to flirt.. its depending how bad the situation is.. i think its like genetically man are designed to like to flirt.. well.. if u do not like the way it is.. you should tell him.. tell him the problem u see now that will happen in the future before u go into the relationship with him..
@babynanan (133)
• Philippines
22 Mar 07
If I still love the guy and if the relationship is still worth trying, y not?! At least, you don't have any regrets at the end. Experiencing the pain again is part of loving. We are hurt because we are loving. It depends on you. No one can teach your heart if your mind coz no matter how you control it, it will still get out find its own ways. :) For me, love is sweeter the 2nd time around coz by this time, you already know each other and what are your differences and you already know how to adjust. Good luck and be happy!! :)
