Public displays of Brestfeeding

International Nursing babies symbol - Have women come a long way out of archaic thinking in regards to being comfortable with b*reastfeeding, or are they too comfortable - imposing themselves on the freedoms of others by public displays? what is your opinion?
@Modestah (11177)
United States
March 22, 2007 12:47am CST
It is likely that we would all agree that the natural food a mother can provide her infant is the absolute best. It is not always convenient to be out with a newborn who demands and needs frequent feedings. What is your opinion on bre*stfeeding in public places. (1)Is it okay so long as it is done discretely with mother covered? (2)Is it never okay in any situation, and the mother must seek out a private place to feed the child? (3) or anything goes - it is the mother's business on what she wants to do, and how she wishes to do it - if it bothers anyone else, too bad?
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@fatragu (677)
• United States
25 Mar 07
I nursed both my girls. In public and at home and we actually had a friend with the audicaty to tell me when HE came to MY house that I needed to go into a different room to "do that" because it made him uncomfortable. I looked at him and told him exactly what I thought about his opinion and reminded him that he knew that I nurse and that he still decided to come over knowing that he might end up seeing me at a time when the baby might get hungry. Funny, he never brought it up again. I am all for feeding a hungry baby no matter which method you use but I have been in Walmart and told by people that worked there when asked if there was a place I could go to nurse my baby that I had to go and sit on a toilet and nurse because "that's gross and no one wants to have to see you do that". I was really nice and didn't smack her like I wanted to. I then asked if she was on break soon and suggested that she eat her lunch with us in the bathroom. Boy that shut her up lol. Come to find out almost 2 years later that you are supposed to be able to nurse in the changing area. I think that when this one is born and I get nasty comments and looks I am simply going to hand them the baby and tell them to calm it down or shut up and let me feed him/her. They don't complain about people feeding babies with bottles in public so what is the big deal about nursing (which is how we were designed to feed babies) a baby if you are covered?
@Modestah (11177)
• United States
25 Mar 07
Thank you for letting us know that they will permit us to feed our babies in the dressing room.
@wdiong (1815)
• Singapore
22 Mar 07
I nurse my son since birth and initially I'm not very comfortable when doing it in public but sometimes there's just no time to seek out a private place to do it so I just have to do it as discreetly as possible.
@mfpsassy (2827)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I think a mother should do what she feels comfortable with. I personally carried a recieving blanket with me to cover up with.
@Connie1013 (1098)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Bre@st is best now matter what. If someone is upset, then too bad. Whatever the MOM is comfortable with it the next best thing. I didn't seek out privacy (hiding in some icky room). I don't think any other MOM should either.