It's so sad! It nearly breaks my heart.

United States
March 22, 2007 2:23am CST
Several days ago I started a discussion looking for other people who are interested in discussing the topic of Teens At Risk. This is a passion of mine and I couldn't find ayone else interested in the topic. To date, only one person has responded to that discussion. I just can not believe tht there are 80,000 people here on myLot and I am the only one whe is interested in the future of our teens! I think maybe I should just go have a little cry now.
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7 responses
• United States
22 Mar 07
Please don't cry. Sometimes very worthwhile discussions get lost in the mire of so many. It is very sad. I am very interested in teen advocacy and the future of our children. I am going to go check out your other discussion now. The best way to insure that you reach people are to build up your friends list with folks that have the same interests as you. It really helps. Welcome to myLot, and please don't be to discouraged...we need more discussions and posters that have merit and will inform and help others.
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• United States
22 Mar 07
I decided to log back in and see what was going on before I went to bed and lo and behold...TWO responses to this post!! I was so thrilled! Thank you so much for your response and I will go to the other post as-soon-as I respond to Grandmaof2 below!!
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• United States
10 Jul 07
You are so right. And it is really scary. I, too, worked in mental health and I worked with teens and young adults. Very rewarding work. Thank youfor your response!
• Canada
22 Mar 07
Sometimes really great postings do get lost somewhere and for that I am sooooo sorry. I am very interested in your topic. I think anyone with a child(ren) should be as well. I have a 9 month old daughter and I know she will be a teen someday (scary thought).
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• Canada
25 Mar 07
Good for you! That is great that you work with teens and you get to see the positive changes in them first hand. I really commend you for that :)
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@mari61960 (4893)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Well I have faith that their are fellow mylotters out there that are interested but, it's true with so many discussions it's not easy to just stumble across them. I hope that my moving this ahead will catch someones attention..lol At least there are discussions listed below this one.. It all has to do with what tags are placed on a discussion. I think it's the word teens that brought up those beneath here.
• United States
23 Mar 07
Actually, I think it did help! The other post got a couple of responses. Thank you!
@foxyfire33 (10005)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I missed it too I think. Good discussions do often get lost. I check my friends list several times a day but I still keep missing a lot. I'll go check out your other discussion as soon as I'm done here. We've been having a lot of trouble with my s/o's oldest son. He's almost 17 so this kind of topic really is important to me.
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• United States
22 Mar 07
dont be sad hun. i have a disscussion that no one has replied to as well and i know there are people here that the subject fits real well with. i worry about teens today. i have a 12 year old girl that i worry about. i see so many kids that need someone to talk to and pay just alittle attention to them. then i see so many others that get to much attention. then there are those that get everything they want but dont get the attention and dont relize it is something they want. back when my grandparents were teens they were like adults today. today though teens have all the thoughts , ideas, availiablity of an adult but are not taught to think like an adult alot of times so therefore they have a hard time making good choices. there are so many teens that there parents were just babies and not ready to be a mom that when they are teens the parents are acting like teens. it is scarey what some kids go through. i think about it though and kids have always went through this stuff just in different ways. it just wasnt as opened and reported like in todays times. i wish when i was a teen someone would of stepped up and been like a parent to me or even cared so i try to do that for teens today that i come across.
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• United States
23 Mar 07
the best thing you can do with a teen is listen. its the best thing you can do with an adult too. sometimes it is the best feeling to have someone listen cause at least then you dotn feel so alone and you feel like some one cares. just keep in mind age doesnt matter for that.
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• United States
4 Nov 07
I work at a child advocacy center. I went on a home visit last week to a 16 yr old's house. She has a 4 month old baby girl. I took her some clothes for the baby. This girl is definitely at risk and has been her whole life. Now she has had a baby and the baby is in the same position that she is in. They are adorable kids, but that is the prob, they are both kids. A child raising a baby. I deal with this issue everyday. Teens at risk. Cutting is real bad among teens. Any ideas or comments on that?
• United States
20 Nov 07
Sorry it has taken me so long to respond to you. I have not been in here for months due to a lot of things going on im my life right now. But in answer to your question, it is almost always a cry for help. A symptom of a much deeper problem. If you are close to someone that is cutting, then encourage them to seek professional help. If that isn't working, then at least talk to them and see if you can find out what the real problem is. So many times I have heard,"The pain reminds me that I'm alive." That is usually a sign of deep depression. Try to get them to see someone that can help!
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• United States
3 Apr 07
Sorry I missed that. Otherwise your topic was really very eminent in todays scenario.
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