Are you a Nagger?

@Caila611 (992)
United States
March 22, 2007 12:39pm CST
Come on ladies. . we all do it. We nag our husbands and significan other constanlty. Here is some advice on how to get things done with out nagging. Compliment him and then ask nicely would he mind getting such and such done or Can you do this thing while get this done and then we can sit and have luch together. Trust me it works.
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@stormygrl (761)
• United States
24 Mar 07
I'm trying not to be but I hate it when they say that they'll do this ,fix something or start something and never finishes. Or something like mowing the grass and it's Sunday evening and he never did it and he works tomorrow so who's stuck mowing ? I think he mowed twice last summer. Try not nagging and they say you forgot to remind me.
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• United States
24 Mar 07
Yes I've bribed too and sometimes it works.
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@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I admit I do nag...but not too often. I have learned to keep my mouth shut because it doesn't help =) Thanks for your tip though...I will have to try it out!
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@Caila611 (992)
• United States
22 Mar 07
we woman have to stick together! I love getting advice on how to help my man respond better towards me.
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
24 Mar 07
i dont think i am, i like to do things and when someone says they will come along, i will expect them too. my kids nag and that drives be nuts
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
22 Mar 07
GUILTY AS CHARGED!!! Sorry, but I'll be the first to admit this fault. I go it because in my eyes, my husband is nothing but a little boy in a grown man's body. If I tell him to do something, he'll forget it. But where I nag him, he yells at me. One time he told me to do something and I wanted to do something else. After he was done, he told me to "come here" and proceeded to tell me, "You are my wife and your place is by my side!" I was like, "Come again?" But when I need him by my side, I'm soft and gentle towards him. Heaven forbid if I yell at him. So, I do the next best thing, I nag. I think it's the male's radar for trouble. Hehehehe.
@Caila611 (992)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I think men have this medical condition it's household amnesia. They can't remember how to put the dishes in the dishwasher or take out the trash. LOL. It is true the more they "forget" the angrier we get!
@dlkuku (1935)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Actually my husband is a nagger. But he doesn't realize how much I do have to do, he works and comes home and sits and watches tv. I work, come home, do laundry, housecleaning, grocery shopping, bill paying, take care of the house, the kid, the pets, etc. It makes me tired just looking at that list! It really irritates me when he nags me about something, and I feel like if he really wants something done that bad, he can get off the couch and do it. Maybe I should start nagging.
@Caila611 (992)
• United States
22 Mar 07
I'm telling ya he has household amnesia. Every man gets it when they get married. LOL
• United States
24 Mar 07
I'm definitely a nagger. Woman just like things done there way. My husband is wonderful though. It got worse when the babies came. Moms know best right? lol! I tell my husband every day how much I need him and miss him when he is at work. It makes him forget about the nagging. Even if I'm really saying those things because I need a break from the babies. He doesn't know that. Hee Hee!!!!
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
22 Mar 07
Yep, I'm a nagger! LOL But I've tried complimenting my husband to do something and most of the time it doesn't work. And of course it just makes me more mad when this happens! LOL But thanks for the advice! :)
@deesamps (653)
• United States
23 Mar 07
I admit that I do nag sometimes. But sometimes it seems like that is the only way that I can get him to do what I asked him to do already a million times. I always feel bad though, because I know that he is only doing it to shut me up and that he is doing it begrudingly.