do you have kids thats very hard to handle??

yes i do have a 3 and a half hyper little girl, she wasn't like that when she was 1 yr old though... she was more behave when she was just a baby and now she's getting more and more know it all kinda girl. sometimes its really hard to deal w/ her but u have to be focused to ur kids and just try to talk to them quietly and patiently. on ur little boy's case, even in his very young age i know he can understand, if u just try to talk to him and let him know what is bad and what is right. telling him that you'll gonna give him a apank doesn't help anymore because he knows that after that he can do it again... let the kid calm down for just a minute and talk to him quietly, give him hugs and kisses and tell him that he's gonna get a reward if he is good. just like motivating the kid to stop peeing in his diaper and start using the bathroom, how would u do that if not talking to him and telling him excatly what to do? so, the best thing to do is to talk to him.