How sure are you about getting married with HIM?

March 23, 2007 5:25am CST
U met him through your friends, he has asked u out..on a date..u like each other 3 months u move in together and a year later u decide to get married .. but u`r just 21 it a wise decision?..what would u do?
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@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
23 Mar 07
well, you can try what i did... Sit down in a place where you can relax most. Get your cuppa coffee or drink of your preference. Play some soft soothing music that will allow you to drift in and out of a dreamy state. Conciously try to relax... close your eyes and imagine walking down the aisle with your significant other. How does it feel? Does it feel right? Does it feel good? Is this the feeling you expect? Now go down a few years into the future... you are buying a house and setting up your first home with your significant other. How does it feel? Are you happy with the new purchase? Now go further down into the future... you wake up on the bed... Is your current significant other the first face you see? Now go down even further... two kids running around the living room. You are busy in the kitchen preparing the meals while your significant other is entertaining the kids. You bring the food out to the dining room. As you do, you glanced into the living room... can you see your current significant other as the one entertaining the kids? Now, go over these mental pictures and if you cannot get a definite picture of who the significant other is... then you are not really ready to take the relationship to the next level. If you are pretty sure, then go a head... you have found the one you are waiting for all your life! I did the same thing as written above, and am happily married to the first love of my life. All the best to you ;)
@puisha (135)
• India
23 Mar 07
hello.i dont think it would be a good decision as 21 is very needs more time to know someone.moreover one is not so mature at this age.So its better to first take decisions about your career and then this.