With the divorce rate so high in the US, do you think...

Some churches do offer pre-martital classes to singles and engaged couples

i don't think u should take classes, because u can't teach someone to love one another. But i just think it's temptation. With women in the workplace now and being more dependent it's harder for either a married man or married woman to not be tempted by someone they c everyday. i'm sure if u asked divorced people y they divorced they'll probably tell u one was being unfaithful, that seems to be the trend. When i worked full time, i wasn't married but i had a lot of married men hitting on me all day, but i did c them more then their own wives did. I think u can still be in love with someone, and still wonder about someone else, it's only human! in other countries men marry more than one woman, c we're not programmed to be in love once and only once, that's how others remarry.

What do 'love' and 'marriage' even have in common ?? I could love several people .. but wouldn't want to be married to them .. and the kind of man I want to marry isn't necessarily someone I could love .. Being 'in' love is totally different to 'loving' someone ...

I think alot of it is that divorces are so easy to get, people seem to want to rush into marriage without really thinking it thru and most people only care about themselves putting there spouses second. In my opinion, if people want there marriage to last, they have to take it a bit more seriously. Its not something to rush into and at least for me, I always put my wife's needs ahead of my own. Thats the way I believe it should be.