heartbroken?

Of course I believe in this. Like you said, the greatest challenge would be how to learn from them. Heartbreaks are painful, yet there are much to learn from them. They provide an insight into the deepest corner of one's soul, and sometimes the period of heartbreak actually acts as a moment when one can truly look inside and contemplate deeply. I went through this really depressing period last year, when my love was rejected by a girl. Naturally, I was heartbroken. I was broody and gloomy for the whole year until it started to affect my friends, for they cannot stand seeing me so miserable. During that period I felt that I'm closer to God in many ways; sometimes I even dream of meeting Jesus. So, heartbreaks work in many wonderful and mysterious ways. They clear your mind and open up many possibilities so that you won't feel as if life is over.