my girlfriend probly did someting bad

United States
March 25, 2007 7:34pm CST
I'm tempted to do a search and pay the $100 or whatever to find out what I think she is nice and not doing bad things now She hasn't and maybe shouldn't share whatever it was in public here I think. Yet I love her and am considering another level. For that I need some more trust, For that I need some more info. Is it ethical to search or not? Should I wait and see if she tells me? How long? Maybe she killed and ate some people or something.
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• India
26 Mar 07
no no wait for your girl she will come defitinetly cheer up please
• United States
29 Mar 07
yeah maybe girls are mean though ;( will she come before or after she cuts me up and puts me on that girll???????? I'm really scared ;(
@Rexy_leigh (1189)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
I don't think hiring somebody to do a research in your girlfriend's life is not a good idea. I mean, if you don't trust her now, give yourself an ample time to learn to trust her, and after some time you still can't trust her, I believe you aren't ready to bring your relationship a level up yet. How do you think will your girlfriend feel if she would know that you're hiring somebody to spy on her? That must surely break her heart. Please don't to it if you want to keep your relationship going. Godbless!
@all4ucnc (861)
• United States
26 Mar 07
You need to talk to her, A relationship needs to be built on trust, and complete honesty...If you did some research on her, would you have told her?... Before you move to a higher level in the relationship, you need to feel your moving on with your best friend whom you can tell anything too. If you can't, then it will never work.