Losing Mom

@leechamp (186)
Philippines
March 25, 2007 8:12pm CST
We lost our mom some 16 years ago of terminal lung cancer. It wa really very depressing, even up to this time, life is never the same without her. No one seems to measure up to her with her kind of strength, her creativity, passion for her growing family to stand-out, she was a planner, an architect, an engineer, an accountant, really she could just do anything she sets heart into with ease. and to Think she was only able to finish high school...I wished Mom didnt left us so early, she died at the age of 56, at a time, when most of her children arent so stable yet to give back a good life that she truly deserves. I still miss her so much.
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@mrsbrian (1949)
• United States
26 Mar 07
god bless your heart i know your pain i lost my mom just this last december, and things will never be the same i miss her so much,everyday something i do or say reminds me of her and i sometimes wonder ,how do i go thru another day without her to encourage me to help me solve a problem,be a shoulder to cry on, i love her so i keep her memory very close to my heart as it is all i have. i wish you all the best and god bless you.
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@leechamp (186)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Just cant help my tears while reading you response. Likewise, there is something that always reminds me of her, the way i sound when i try to cough out something involuntarily, even my sisters noticed it and still have her simple Seiko 5 watch with me. Its the only one really that makes me feel i still connect to her anytime each time i wear it...i feel so safe when im wearing it anywhere i go.
@onabreak2 (1161)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I am so sorry you lost your Mom when she was so young. It is so hard when we lose our parents. Somehow we just expect them to live forever. Her pain is gone now though and she will be always be with you as you have such happy and good memories of her. Try to think of the good times always. I know it is hard but time seems to somehow make it a bit easier. But the loss is still there. I can tell she was a good Mom. Mine was too and I still think of her all the time. Think of how lucky you were to have had such a good Mother. She made you the person you are today.
@leechamp (186)
• Philippines
26 Mar 07
Thank you so much. It makes me feel better.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
22 Apr 07
i'm sorry of what had happened to your mom..it's not easy to have no mom in our life, specially when were used to have mom everyday..our mom is our bestfriend..she knows all of our story in our life, she is our strength, our shoulder to cry on,ohh..i cant imagine without my mom at that age..i love my mom so dearly and i dont want that she will leave us when were not ready..cheers for our mom!! :)