How Do I Get My Kid Back Into His Own Bed?

@vokey9472 (1486)
United States
March 26, 2007 8:53am CST
My son had started sleeping in his own bed and I was so thrilled about it. Lately, though, he has started going to bed in his own bed and crawling back into my bed around 4ish in the morning. I am just so tired that I have been letting him stay in the bed with me, but last night he kicked me so hard that this morning I have to go to the doctor to have my ribs x-rayed as I am in terrible pain. He has broken my ribs before by kicking in his sleep which is why I was so happy when started sleeping in his own bed all night. I just don't know how to get him back to staying in his bed all night. Some people told me to pick him up and put him back in his bed, but he is just too heavy for me to pick up. I have some old back injuries that have never healed right and my doctor told me that my son is too heavy for me to be picking up. His father could pick him up, but he tends to wake him all the way up when he tries and then we are up from 4ish until 7ish before my child will go back to bed and that is what time we get up in the morning. If I let him stay up all day, then he is super cranky by 3pm and he is way too old for an afternoon nap that late in the day when bedtime is at 730pm. Any suggestions would be helpful. I am at a loss as to how to get him back into his own bed all night.
3 responses
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
26 Mar 07
One suggestion might be to put a sleeping bag on the floor next to your bed. If he insists on coming in and you are too tired to get him back in his room, then tell him that he can only sleep on the sleeping bag.
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@mtoxales (374)
• Canada
7 Apr 07
I have a similar problem. My 2 kids (3 and 4 yrs old) are already sleeping in a separate room. They still won't let me go during bedtime. I have to make them sleep first after I can leave them. Then around midnight one of them will call me and I have to go back and lie down with them. For my 4 year old son, sometimes he understands already and just continues sleeping when I say so. But my 3 year old daughter still cries and want me to stay beside her. If he crawls back to your bed, you can just bring him back to his bed and stay with him and let him fall asleep first before you go back to bed again. I do this although sometimes I tend to fall asleep on the chair but it's better than being hurt by your kid. =)
@kathy77 (7485)
• Australia
27 Mar 07
Yes that is the trouble when our children sleep with us that they do not know what they are doing when there asleep of course and it is always best to try and take him back to his own bed. That is terrible that he has broken your ribs. Seeing you cannot pick him up then walk him back to his bed.