Breaking up

Well for me when I have just came out of along and bad relationship the thing I do right away is try to find someone else to hangout with until the feelings have all passed. Its like the old saying go's: Out of sight, out of mind! I just move on as quick as I can so I dont get to that depression stage and wish we never broke up.

I don't think but it would depend if my feelings for my previous bf is long gone.. But if that situation you mentioned I'm into then it would really be a long cry for me, I know it's hard accepting it because I'm already thinking that he is the one. I've experienced that one before but months before we broke up I took a quiz online on where I'm suitable to live but after reading the result, I suddenly felt that I could really see more of things out and suddenly realizes that probably he's also not the one.. That one action really opened up my eyes in seeing the big picture and on why I should just stay there with him not even making an effort on seeing me after thinking and hoping he could be the one.. In order to get over him I could really do those things but it would depend how long I could recover myself from it, I don't just blame myself on it but I know I'll be thinking hard on things that would help me realize the mistakes we've made..

how can you get over the pain? How can you learn to live again? How can you start viewing your single status as a fresh and fun opportunity instead of a punishment? How can you stop feeling that you are unlovable and unwantable - and that fate has marked you out for a lifetime of solitude, misery and bad luck?Well, the first step towards a new positive future is to finally accept that your ex-partner has gone and will not be coming back. This means facing your grief and allowing yourself to cry for the loss of your hopes and dreams. I am afraid that this is a painful process whether you are a young man who has just lost the girl of his fantasies or a 50-year-old woman whose cruel, philandering husband of 30 years has finally walked out.The most important thing to remember at this point is that you will get over this. I know it does not seem like it right now, but you will, believe me.

no i cant start a new relationship immediately after a break up, yes it will hurt me alot but i wont blame anybody. i will just try to accept the fact that we are not meant for each other.

It took me a very long time to dare myself to get into another relationship. It's so hurting to be heart broken. I am not the type to let go very easily. I did coop myself up in my bedroom and didn't even felt like eating once. I even lost 6 kilos of my weight just trying to get it over. I felt like everything is collapsing around me. But come to think of it now, it was foolish of me to behave that way. Now, whenever things don't work out, I always psyche myself and say that, it's that person's lost!! I am a lot stronger emotionally now. Thanks to that previous ordeal!!