I find it hard to handle such feeling---

China
March 27, 2007 9:18am CST
sometimes my affection toward friends I appreciate is really beyond their expectation,to not take their surprise,I just hide these feeling in my inner heart,and sometimes feel lonely and depressive, do you bear the same feeling?
2 responses
@EvanHunter (4026)
• United States
27 Mar 07
I agree with the first comment you should always tell people how you feel about them there may never be another chance to tell your friend you love them and care about them. There is a difference between letting them know how you feel and pushing your feelings on them. Telling anyone how you feel about them shouldnt be a problem. To push your feelings on them if they dont feel the same is a different story.
27 Mar 07
Some years ago I lost a very dear friend in a road accident and never, ever told her how much I felt for her. I THINK she guessed, but ever since then I've made a promise to myself that I will always tell my friends how I feel about them. It can be hard; some of my friends don't know how to take it, but because they trust me they know that I'm being serious and that I'm not trying to tease them. My friendships have become closer and deeper; they know how I feel about them, and in return a few of them have told me what they think about me. It can be a risk, but it's wonderful when it works.