Insecurities, how does it affects you?.

Philippines
March 27, 2007 7:18pm CST
Human as we are, we are imperfect and envious and we make mistakes.And we are insecured.How far your insecurities take you?How does your insecurities affects you?Emotionally.Is it really normal to be insecured with the other?Want to hear your side.
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@jcvernz (477)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
It's a natural thing to feel insecurities but it's really depend to us how to manage it. Don't let insecurities pull you down but serve it as a basis for you to move on to life, to reach for the things you desires or even reach the farthest stars.For me i dont let my insecurities be a hindrance in pursuing i want in life but rather it served as tool to reach for my goal.If others can so why can't i. That's one thing ive learned from life.
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
Thats good and i know its kinda awkward.But its do normal maybe we should not let them feel less confidence in ourselves.After all we are all beautiful in god's eyes and we are created in his image and likeness..
@tinacaps (66)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
I think insecurities is an intended human flaw. It teaches us to reflect on ourselves and see how we really are and how God wants us to become not what others wants us to be. Insecurities can either make a person or break them. In order to overcome this, you focus on the positive, what makes you stand out from other people. What are the skills or talents that you have that make you a unique individual. Work on those talents and skills. Show the world that you can do it despite the whatever liabilities you have or what you FEEL you have. Comparison is normal, it could never be avoided but how you respond to it does. So, pull up your pants, puff out your chest and say to the world, here I come... so watch out!
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
Yes thanks so much.Maybe i should focus on the beautiful things god planted inside of me.Anwyas we are all naive by nature.
• Philippines
14 Aug 07
My insecurities gives me a headache. I don't want to entertain any insecurities anymore, because we are all unique and unperfect. If we know that really truth about uniqueness then we don't have to be insecured. I use my best tools, i try to think of my best quality rather to be insecured.Honestly, not all the time but i am trying.
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
28 Mar 07
I know I was very insecure with my ex. husband. Then again now looking back I had a right to be. he was always leaving and going out so i knew something wasn't right.
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
it's normal to feel insecure just don't let it block your way and lower your self confidence. there's a saying that "do not compare yourself to others because that would make you feel bitter." i agree with that because there is always a better person than us. just everytime you had the feeling of insecurity, tell yourself that you have something good that that person doesn't have. that would make you feel better somehow.