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Philippines
March 27, 2007 8:19pm CST
What's the point of making the courtship long if you will still end up with that guy?
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• Philippines
28 Mar 07
the point of making courtship long, is that you will get to know him or her much longer, her attitudes that you still do not know. yes there is a lot of things to know from a certain person, not only his or her history or story in life but rather all of his or her personality and characteristics of being him or her.
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• Philippines
29 Mar 07
I see your point. But sometimes in courtship, you cannot see the bad side of the person since he or she wanted to impress you. I think you will see the ral person when he is already your partner.
• United States
28 Mar 07
My husband and I were together for three years before we actually got married. We had an apartment together and we did everything that we would be doing when we got married, but I think that we have to have an understanding of each other before we feel comfortable making that decision. I was ready to get married right away but he had to make sure that I was the one that he wanted to spend his life with. The way that things are going these days with divorce and all, I think that it is probably better to be absolutely sure before you make that leap and chance things going very wrong after you get married.
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• Philippines
29 Mar 07
Maybe in marriege it's really important that you should know more about your hushband to be. But in a casual boy/girl relationship, is it really necessary to have a long way courtship?
@kerry1804 (214)
• India
7 Apr 07
if you already end up then there is no meaning of continuing.. unless u have other plan to come back to him
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
7 Apr 07
I am now 54 and I have a different view on courtship than I used to have. I have met a man that I have know for over a month and to be honest, this is the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. I married at the age of 22 and I settled for less and I was miserable for all the years we were together. It was a constant battle to keep things on an even keel and he had addictive behaviors. The best thing that came out of that relationship was my two daughters. Now that I have been around and seen what I don't want in life, I don't want to waste the precious time I have left. I want to share all my discoveries and the wonders that I have left to see with this special man. I am not looking for wealth or fame or any of the things that most women look for. I just want to share this deep feeling and the love that I have in my heart. He may be moving due to business and it will take him away in about two months. The thought is enough to bring me to my knees. I have know the marriage of settling. I now know that there is a love that I don't want to live without.
@ronreyes (4724)
• Philippines
7 Apr 07
My opinion why most girls like long courtship is because they want to know how special they are. LOL. Honestly, I don't really know why you girls always want to have a long courtship. Us guys feel we're just a slave whenever you do that to us. Hehe. But my honest opinion to this, maybe you just like to know us more before you say yes. I think that's the right attitude. But my advice is don't let us wait for too long ok!? It kinda sucks in our part sometimes. - Ron Reyes www.ronreyes.co.nr
@yomy1984 (177)
• United States
31 Mar 07
making the courtship long it is because it shows that the guy really loved you and cared for you and thats why he can wait when did you want to accept your love or his love.