what really is love for you?

@jnetkris (213)
United States
March 28, 2007 9:46am CST
Do you believe that you truly love a person but you left them for some reasons?i asked this because one time when my own relationship went rocky. myself and my husband read a book*false love*there we knew that if you*feel* you love someone but left him/her it only means it was NOT really love at all ... I and personaly agree with this how about you guys? what's your view on this? or what really is love for you?thanks=)
4 responses
@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I believe if you truly love somebody than you will do anything and everything to work the relationship out. But it takes both people loving each other equally and really being commited to each other.
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
i strongly agree with you =) i hate to think there are some people go *gaga* over person who constantly hurt them & never try to settle it.
• United States
1 Apr 07
now i disagree. if you truly love someone, you have to learn to let him/her go when that love is gone. you say that you have to fight for him and do everything you can to make him stay? i say no. love should not be forced and should be effortless.
@iamdede (80)
• United States
1 Apr 07
bottom line is... love is overrated =)
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
1 Apr 07
opo =)
@perugu (5279)
• India
28 Mar 07
hi,friend,real love means a pack of sacrifices,but now a days we can't find.In many cases people feel that our's is true love but when financial crisis comes,then the real love will be disturbed...True love means that should be remain in all circumstances same.
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
sigh.... please don't say we can't find true love nowadays anymore im so optimistic about love =)
• Philippines
28 Mar 07
love?!? ahhh..love can destroy some person..if you leave your loved one alone maybe there is such a reason.. or you didn't love him/her.. i was experienced in that situation that me and my loved one left each other not because we don't love each other it's because we need some freedom..some space to think if we can live without each other but unfortunately after the break-up we were together again but in the end..we break up again..but after all of that i loved him still..after all of the sacrifices..that i made..still i loved him.. hehehe..please response also to my discussions
@jnetkris (213)
• United States
28 Mar 07
hehehe... how old are you diane? =) anyways, that is what love is for you the older we get the better we understand what really it is =) i surely visit your page =)