How Many of You are Keeping a Big Secret from Your Spouse/BF/GF?
By Writerbob
@Writerbob (572)
United States
March 28, 2007 3:21pm CST
I personally do not have any big secrets. I'm not sure that it's because I live such a boring life, or that my wife is too sharp and would have me confessing within an hour :-). So MyLotter's, how many of you are keeping a big secret from your partner right now? You don't have to reveal what it is, just let us know WHY you are hiding this information - that's the interesting part!
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4 responses
@runner0369 (641)
• United States
29 Mar 07
I am keeping a big secret from my boyfriend...he said he would never date a girl who had done a certain thing and i have done this thing. Well, i really like him and don't want to lose him so i continue to keep it from him. Hopefully he will not find out!
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@Writerbob (572)
• United States
29 Mar 07
Early in a relationship is not a good time for baring one's souls, so i think keeping this to yourself is a rational decision.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
28 Mar 07
You can count me on the "nope" list...LOL i'm not keeping any secrets from my husband and I cant think of anything I would keep as a secret either really...I mean my life is pretty much an open book so trying to "hide" something from him just wouldnt be my nature ya know...
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@Writerbob (572)
• United States
28 Mar 07
It's alot more fun when you don't have to perpetuate a lie, i agree!
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@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
28 Mar 07
I don't actually think I'm hiding anything right now. Before I kept a lot of things to myself, but I've brought up a lot of the stuff I refused to bring up before. I never really planned to bring it up, it just sort of happened.
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@Writerbob (572)
• United States
28 Mar 07
that happened early on in my relationship too. It helps (hurts?) that your partner is a born detective like mine!
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@palpalsky (899)
• United States
29 Mar 07
i dont think it is required to keep any secrets ... i never keep it
