March 29, 2007 4:21am CST
is it good 4 a man to be without lover/
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4 responses
@Jellytang (698)
• China
29 Mar 07
Why can you say these?I cannot believe what you are talking about.What is good for you when you are without lover on earth?
• Lebanon
29 Mar 07
Well I can't say that it is good, but I can't say that it is bad either... I can say that I personally can't live without a girl to share all my experiences with, and my difficulties since she can really help me conquer them... I hope you get the point...
@LadyLeene (584)
• United States
29 Mar 07
Yes, for a variety of reasons. Some men are abusive personalities, for example, which accounts for the pedophiles and wife-beaters who would be unhappy or even bored with what society deems a healthy relationship. Also, even if you're a healthy man, being without a lover leaves you more time to focus on and learn about yourself. I think people put too much pressure on each other to conform into certain types of relationships, and this is sad to me. You can be happy and not be in a relationship.
@smacksman (6072)
29 Mar 07
First of all, welcome to myLot - I hope you enjoy it here. I think in many ways it can be good to be celibate. It stops distraction and allows the mind to concentrate on a subject. The best situation would be to have a lover who was not too demanding. haha Then you could have the pleasures of a lover and companionship and also time to study and reflect when you are alone. Perfection, maybe?