Do you trust your new friends?

Strangers now friend. - Hurt because of betrayal
India
March 29, 2007 1:32pm CST
i have a bad experience relating to it, i made 27 new friend this month in my college and found many betrayed me?really its hurting. did u experience it?
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@Jennifer21 (2476)
• United States
29 Mar 07
Well, if you actually exspect to have that many close friends, you are living in a dream. You may have 27 friends, but maybe just a few will be close. No wonder you got betrayed. You probably threw yourself out there expecting to have close relationships with all of them. Maybe next time you'll know not to exspect that.
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
How rightly have you put it. It is true that we can never have a string of friends. It is mighty lucky if we can have a handful. Most people I know have only one or two.
• India
30 Mar 07
i do not think we should trust new friends specially when we do not give them enough time to express themself.
@flikkenni (537)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 07
I think we should know which people good to be our friend or not. So, if we want to have friend, we have to choose it carefully because if you are wrong when you choose your friend, some day they might be betrayed you or hurts you. So, you must carefully for choosing someone to be your friend. Choose people who has suited to you and maybe the one you can trust to be your friend. I have some experience with it. I have a friend and some of them betrayed me when i trust the to keep secret or something else. From now on, i carefully choose my friend.
@lifetalk (679)
• Pakistan
29 Mar 07
WEll, i'd say, that unless you trust your new friends, i doubt that you will be able to make any lifelong or trusted honest friends. ALthough i do understand that your case was a pretty bad and a heartbreaking one, but i'd say, that choose your friends carefully. I mean, you said you made 27 new friends. Were all of them your type? Did they and you have something in common? Did they ever help you? Did they ever share things, secrets, etc with you? Find 2 or 3 good frnds to start with. ANd go on making more, but get a few steady and trusty friends to start off with! Good Luck
@whozefa (448)
• India
29 Mar 07
well dear u shld only make a friend those whom u trust..i mean u can have a thouand of ur friends, but u do not trust them all...inspite keep ur own friends group in diff whom u trust
• Philippines
29 Mar 07
No, they are not your friends. You can aptly call them your acquaintances. You know them by name and face, and so do they know you by name and face, too. You don't have any idea yet as to who they are deep inside each one of them. It takes time to build real and true friendships. Normally, we will have only one to a maximum of four or five real and true ones. Don't get disappointed if you will be unable to build up any. You will surely have one, once you find the girl whom you will love truly and she will love you truly in return. Good luck and best wishes on your day to day struggle in life.