Does marrage contai money,house,,job and family?

China
March 29, 2007 8:21pm CST
My mother often say that my boyfriend shouldn't be poor.And before marrage he must have house property,a good job,well education and family backgroud.I disagree.I just hope that we could live a happy life.
2 responses
@vicky19810 (1601)
• China
30 Mar 07
yes,i agree with you .it is better that if my boyfriend has the house,the good job,well education,and so on,but who can make sure he really loves me ?so in my opinion,true love and happy life are most important.moreover,if he has good capability,he will improve and develop all the things no long soon.right?as a friend,i advise that you could have a boyfriend and be together with him for happy life.i hope you can do it and be happier.lol...
@kurtbiewald (2628)
• United States
30 Mar 07
sometime go to a food place when you are hungry. order a 99 hamburger maybe see what happens when there isn't money for the second one If he says "you have it", pick him Or maybe if you have to split it, does he at least let you take the big half? then consider it If it works out, 20 years later the hamburger is house, you are getting a divorce, and looking for someone new, etc. at least he was niceto you, really loved you and you learned something If he has $10 and won't buy the second hamburger, run away fast. He would treat you like that first hamburger. If it lasts a night or a lifetime, hellish either way, no matter how cute he is or how many women want him. Or what kind of car he has.