What do you do if.......................

United States
March 30, 2007 8:03am CST
You were trying to plan a wedding and you had always dreamed of a big beautiful family & friends type wedding, but yet you couldnt afford it, or the other half wasnt really trying to help out with all the stuff that makes a wedding, or if the families didnt get along but you love your other half & not the family???? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?? THIS CAN BE FLIPPED FLOPPED MEANING MEN OR WOMEN IN ONE OF THESE POSITIONS???
1 response
• United States
30 Mar 07
Weddings are just a moment in time and the marriage is for life (or should be). Don't start off in more debt than you can handle. Your focus should be on making the best marriage you can and if you are really in love, the wedding should not be you one main focus. I have seen friends who had weddings costing $15-20,000 and their marriage only lasted a year. The stress from all the debt was a bad way to start a marriage. Focus on each other and meet in the middle and your success will be much better.
• United States
30 Mar 07
Very good advice, this is for a friend and I will definitely pass along your thoughts!!! Thanks so much for the post!