A Thought Of Love For Your Head...... Not to Your Bed.....!!!!

Philippines
March 30, 2007 9:26am CST
A thought for your head and not to your bed. When we feel love the first time, we think that it all sums up into one desire, to be with our special person for the remaining days of our lives. But I think it all changes as time goes by, and there is a path that most couples take that is inevitable for them not to travel along that long and winding, mind twisting and when you are not equipped, you can die anytime while you're taking the journey with your love one..... it is a dangerous path but you won't die physically..... don't take it literally, you will surely understand at the end of this thought. We humans follow a lot of cycles, we live by our routines and in love sad to say, we live by routines. The cycle starts when you feel a spark, your mind jumps and your heart starts to pump (Let me state this, I don't believe that love is felt in your heart, because the heart functions as a pump, pumping blood carrying oxygen that the body needs to function correctly.... of course it hurts when you cry with the pressure that comes from your mind and of course you breathe fast because you are losing air.... just a freedom of expression coming from me.... I don't want to hurt anyone, it's just a thing that I believe in... Thanks!) so fast that you feel nervous, your body shakin' all the time when you see the lovely one then courting comes and the woman will eventually say yes because of your hard work and non-stop romance. The next cycle would be for a very long time you stay together, you plan to get married and when marriage comes, you plan to have kids and when kids come, as we see in our parents, you never see them sweet to each other anymore, your dad will be busy on his work and mom will be busy to you and your siblings, can we say that when we spend many years with our partners love and sweetness of the past suddenly slips away???? easily find out that you need to be together for the kids and not because you feel the same love as before???? If you guys know the song When I'm 64, the person in the song asks "Will you still need me, Will you still Feed me? When I'm 64?". I am asking, does love decrease when we couples get older? I am not saying it happens to all couples, but fact is fact and we see it most of the time. I know that this topic is so delicate, hope you won't get angry. I am just trying to correct our way of life for I believe that GOD and LOVE must be the center of every couple and it must not slip away. Hope you enjoy the topic! Thank you very much!
1 response
@Tomcat27 (112)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
now that's what i call 'heart pumping' explanation there buddy! but seriously, my point of view about love is friendship with intimacy that only two people can share. love and lust don't mix and it never will. the only difference between them is respect. letting love slip away through the years is not a matter of fate nor accident... it's a matter of choice.