What do you do when you think your man doesn't think your attractive anymore
By AcousticSoul
@AcousticSoul (1309)
United States
March 30, 2007 12:32pm CST
I catch my men looking at other girls and sometimes comparing our looks... I'm starting to feel like he's not attracted to me what should I do
2 responses
@jennawinseverytime (377)
• United States
30 Mar 07
I know I am beautiful, and you should too. Don't bother men tend to underappreciate there mate with time. You know what will really turn him on, if you realize that others find you attractive, so why bother what he thinks? Just so long as he doesn't make a habit of looking at other woman then your relationship should be fine. Otherwise you will naturally start to seek attention elsewhere. And you will get it.
@missladycc (154)
• United States
1 Apr 07
It's better to just understand that there will always be change in a relationship and that dosn't mean he/she loves their mate any less. First try to adjust to the change, try some other options that make you feel better. I wouldn't say change for him, but change until you feel better. If that dosn't work then maybe his love wasn't original.
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Thats how I should look at it... because of his actions bring me down I've been thinking less of myself.. ok I'm going to turn the tables and see what happens
thanks
@bluebird1956 (404)
• Canada
30 Mar 07
How long have the two of you been together? Sometimes after people have been in a relationship for a long time, they become so comfortable that they don't really try anymore. They gain weight, dress in clothes that they never would have worn when they were first dating, don't take care of their hairstyles in the same way, etc.
I'm not saying that you should be gussied up and in make up 100% of the time, but maybe you need to dress up a little more for your man...bring back some of the sexiness, the mystique.
@AcousticSoul (1309)
• United States
30 Mar 07
Him and I have been together for a year and 7 months... Well I've always cared about how I look, as far as keeping myself up... I do work out...I don't want to complain to him and start an argument.
@bluebird1956 (404)
• Canada
30 Mar 07
If you are keeping up your appearance, then what is he saying to compare you with others? Men often do look at other women but that, in itself, doesn't mean anything. If, however, he is actually making comments comparing you with these other women and you are keeping up your appearance, then there is a definite problem.
I am not sure why you think that dicussing this issue with him oould make him angry. If that's the case, you might need to find a new man because you should be able to discuss something like this without him getting upset.
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