Ran Away

Pakistan
March 30, 2007 6:18pm CST
How many times have you ran away from your home your family and what are the reasons behind your running away? I have ran away twice,firstly when my father didnt bought me a bicylce i wanted so much at the age of 12 and second time when i had some fight with my siblings,is running away from your home good to make everyone else listen to you? Have you ever got whatever you wanted to have by doing this?
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@Rabi0322 (188)
• Pakistan
6 Apr 07
well i have never ran away from my home but i remember few days back my elder brother got angry for some reason and ran away from home and my mother and father got very worried about him and went after him and got him back to home oh thanks GOD he was back i dont know when he will grow up
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@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
26 Apr 07
I read the other response, and see that I am the first to answer this way. I ran away from home. But the reasons I did it wasn't because of not getting what I wanted. It was more of a need to survive. When I was 12 a family friend brutally raped me. When I went to my mother, she didn't believe me. For me runny away, was a way to feel and be safe. Since my mother wouldn't protect me, I needed to protect myself. I am from America and here, they have places for kids, that have problems and troubles at home. They are safe places and I knew that. So I ran away to be in that safe place. I once took off, and found two babysitting jobs, that payed me each $75 a week. I was able to rent an apartment with all utlities paid for $75 a week and had $75 left over for food. When I was 16 I was able to prove, I could take care of myself, and the courts agree, and legally made me an adult. For me, though it might not have been the ideal way to deal with what happened to me, it was the best thing for me. I have siblings that similar things happened to and they are a mess. I took control, of a situation that was out of control. By taking my control back. I got my life back.
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• Pakistan
27 Apr 07
Sorry to hear about what happened with you when you were a kid,and that thus proof your a self made lady and thats really good not just for yourself but also your a ideal to most who are suffering from same problems i hope now you'll get all the happiness that you havent got in your childhood and best of luck for everything you do in every test of your life.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
25 Mar 08
Hi avonrep1...sorry to interrupt but I really think that you are such a brave woman to be going through such a hardship since young...may God bless your life always and keep you safe..take care ;)
• Pakistan
9 Apr 07
Its not good at all.A brave person always stand by in a in a diffcult situation and try to face it instead of running away.Our parents do alot of things for us specially in a country like ours they need to struggle a lot for giving us a healthy life ,still if there are a few thing which they can't buy for us we need to understand them and help them by keeping them happy as they did us.
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• Pakistan
10 Apr 07
Yes you are quite right one should stand to face anything at all that comes in his way,your response is really appreciated.
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• United States
31 Mar 07
Personally I have never ran away fro home. I always said that I was going to and then I was to scared to try.
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• Pakistan
31 Mar 07
so your just making them go afraid hehehe quite clever,nice way to earn some attention by giving prior empty warnings and sometimes it does works .
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@OURDEW (4809)
• United States
10 Apr 07
I have never run away. I have gotten really angry but never thought of running away. How long did you run away when you did? Did it help?
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• Pakistan
11 Apr 07
Well not for that long tried but caught i guess i will try it again some day hehehe but i dont think there will be any benefit of it now as i am 25 at the moment , well it did helped in some manner as i got i wanted to have but after some time.
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• United States
4 Apr 07
I haven't ran away, but I have just got up and walked out of the house. When my parents argue is can get pretty nasty on a verbal level. So the best thing for me to do is take an hour-long walk. It's not like they don't know; the front door slamming is pretty much a give-a-way.
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• Pakistan
5 Apr 07
yea its much better to show anger in some another manner rather than running away as it'll not solve the situation but rather more make it devastating.
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• United States
31 Mar 07
I never ran away. I thought about it a few times, especially when things were rough. I never wanted to run away for anything petty. I never saw a point.
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• Pakistan
31 Mar 07
Good thing,thinking and practically doing something are really different things,so do you mean if thing will be quite important you would have ran away is it? will there than be any point?
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
10 Apr 08
I have not tried that but I have tried not to talk to my mom when she didn't bought me an ice cream..hahahha.. I walked so fast that she could not catch me! bad girl! those were the days!
• Pakistan
10 Apr 08
Yeah you are right young days always remain as beautiful memories, i guess one one is young wish to grow up quickly and when he/she does want to become child again no worries free like a bird.
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@VotreAmie (3028)
• United States
26 May 07
I have never run away from home. But I would think that when you have some problems with family you can try to talk about the things that bother you. I know that running away will make your parents very worried so it's better not to use that solution. I don't know if that can resolve the problems and make the other members of the family listen. It may... But I don't want to sound like encouraging people to run away each time they have a problem. Hmmm you are still young that's why you are thinking that running away can resolve your problems. Take care BrainTeaser and watch those exams!
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• Pakistan
26 May 07
Thank you for the response and also thanks for the advice regarding running away and exams aswell,i hope i'll follow both of your advises :D.
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@laltu86 (1249)
• India
30 May 07
I havent faced any problem so major that would force me to elope till now , dont know what future holds for me :)
• Pakistan
31 May 07
Thanks for your response,hopefully you'll have a wonderful life!
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@taurean83 (505)
• United States
27 Apr 07
hmmm..i never ran away from anything...not even if i want somebody to listen to me & they rnt doin so...i think yeah it is a kiddish thing to do...C u said u were @ age of 12 so its quite kiddish plus sometimes its not the solution for wht u r doing it for...:)
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• Pakistan
27 Apr 07
Yes its not the best thing to do but sometimes it goes over your head and one have to take some major steps like the other lady did , so its much related to the circumstances one in at that time and decide whats the best thing to do for the moment.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
25 Mar 08
I think running away with a good and valid reason is not a cowardice act. Instead, in some rare cases like avonrep1, I think she is really brave to be running away and to carve a life for herself for survival means. My heart went out to her and it was such a bad thing that happened to her. As a guy myself, I haven't done that at all and that is because I'm surrounded by a family and lots of friends that are always willing to hear me out and share my problems. But I don't condemn running away because like the song from Craig David, "I'm running away...from the troubles in my life.." I think that is really a pretty good irony to life. If you just can't deal with it, just leave it...for good. However, the circumstances in which you are running away have to be a very good and valid one, instead of just running away just to get attention...have a good day bro ;)
• Pakistan
10 Apr 08
Yes you are right sometimes you got to do it to survive the harshness of life.But sometimes one do it just becuase of his/her childish age/behaviour so it should be justifiable on all grounds.
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
10 Apr 08
You are right about that bro, I totally agree. ;)
• Malta
16 Feb 08
i never ran away form home, I use to lock myself in my room, and let my parents wonder about me!!! Then they will check out what happened to me ;) and at the end, get what I want :)!!!!
• Pakistan
16 Feb 08
Never aww thats too bad you havent had any fun yet hehe... by the try to be more expressive in here to get more out of this more topic oriented words the more you make ;)
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