Looks or personality?

United States
March 31, 2007 10:52am CST
When you see someone worth dating, are you first attracted to their looks, or their personality. I think for almost everyone it is looks at first, personality comes next. I think personality is the the key essential though.
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@vicat506 (132)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I htink no matter how well-intentioned we are, looks is the first thing we notice. When I met my fiancee, I thought he was absolutley gorgeous. After a few weeks we went out and began talking. I know this sounds bad, but if he hadn't been good loking, I would have never noticed him, or asked him out in the first place. Luckinl for me, he has a good personality too...lol. So I guess my story goes along with what you said, looks first, personality second.
@msqtech (15074)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I think though that many beautiful people exist and many have trouble dating for a reason. I think perhaps they are unapproachable.
@y4175317 (204)
• Indonesia
31 Mar 07
i first attracted to their looks,personilty bnext i know don't looh a book by just the cover
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@honeyangel (1991)
31 Mar 07
personality,if these person is funny and i can get along with them.looks are only skin deep and can fade over time
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
Accept it or not, we first see people by its looks. All of us wants to have a presentable partner in life so that if there are gatherings you will not be ashame to tell and introduce to everyone your partner. You will not know the personality of each person by just simply looking at them, you must spend time with in order for you to know more about them. So to get straight to the point, we first attracted by their looks and personality comes next.
@maucute (979)
• Philippines
31 Mar 07
Definitely personality.. :) When I saw someone attractive, I would say it that they look good but it's not the one I'm looking for when it comes to dating.. I'm quite picky to the people I date so I really have to see what's really inside the person because looks can come just an extra afterwards.. :)
@codywest (78)
31 Mar 07
I would say it is looks, I wouldn't date anyone I didn't like the look of. But I would never continue to date someone if they had good looks but a horrible personailty
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
31 Mar 07
I think personality is what attracts. We can focus on strangers looks but we seldom make a move until we are sure they are nice people.
@Bell88 (370)
• Malaysia
31 Mar 07
Looks and the impression the person gives is important to see if he is worth dating or not. If the person is not looks worthy than he or she has to come up with a great or nice personality to attract the opposit i believe. Looks certainly are not that important. But of course even if the person has great personality but is really really not good looking then i suggest he/she go for plastic surgery. Thank god there is plastic surgery. Or maybe if the person is rich and the girl/guy don't mind the ugly look for the money.