how often do you think people you loved who already passed away?

no, it's NOT worng. of course you must keep on living, you can't get depressed and ruin your life for a loss, you got to cope with it... BUT it's beautiful to always remember a dear person who passed away. ALWAYS. I had many losses in my life, and never let go anyone :-) I keep on living with them in my heart. I miss them less in this way too. And I know they keep on loving me from Heaven. So yes, never let them go from your mind and heart ^_^

no it is true it is happning with me also the same my grandpaa have passed 2 yrs ago but i still remember that how he use to support me how he had played wuth me and i love him till now i remember him lot i dont know what god is doing with our family bcoz my gdand paa expired then my big sis who was completing her studies and she might have become doctor with in yr but now what!!! its all in gods hand now my grand maa is so week then also she is strugleing

Not at all darlyjane! That's where they belong. I lost my grandfather 8 years ago and my father 10 years ago, but still think of and share my memories of them with others quite often. These are important figures in our lives. Everyday there is something else that they had either shown me how to do or that they had watched as I succeeded at something & it would bring back the memories. Songs on the radio, certain foods, certain smells, etc all bring back the memories. But it's a good thing to remember and is usually very warming to the heart. Continue to keep them close to you. There is no need to let them go. :D