Cecar or nature born ?

I think natural is safer, babies are more likely to die if they are born via cesarean. They need the pressure of coming through the birth canal to get all of the fluid out of their lungs. I know there are cases of medical emergencies where cesarean is necessary. When my mother was going through labor with me, my shoulders got stuck in the birth canal so they did an emergency cesarean to deliver me. If a woman chooses to get a cesarean because she's afraid of regular delivery or she wants to pick the birth day, I think she is copping out, she's putting her babies life in jeopardy because she is selfish.

I don't think natural birth makes you feel more of woman. My daughter had her first child natural and the second by ceasarian. She said she preferred the natural as the ceasar was painful afterwards. Other ladies say they prefer the ceasarians. Birth is birth. My babies were all born by ceasar and someone once said to me, a mother giving birth by ceasar does not love her children as much as if she had natural birth. It was such a hurtful comment.

I gave birth to my son naturally. I wanted to avoid a cesarian delivery unless it was an absolute emergency. I just think it's healthier for mother and child to give birth naturally and to avoid a cesarian delivery unless an emergency warrants a c-section.