2 Apr 07
Having fantasies with someone other than our patner is ok i guess...For me it's not being unfaithful...Fantasies is just a dream and it's depends on us to set the limitation right...?if we do want the fantasies became a reality and go for it than the situation changes...That's being unfaithful...But if just let it be fantasies and enjoyed it that way,than it its harmless to our relationship with our patner. For me, i wouldn't like to know my patner fantasies...i'm afraid he might have a fantasies freakier than me...hehehe yaiks...! :)
2 Apr 07
I think fantasies are quite harmless as we all like to dream now and again and thats the good thing about being able to have them in the privacy of our own minds. I am sure my partner has them and as long as I don't know about them, there is no problem. The same as he does not know about mine. I don't think it is being unfaithful, its only when the fantasy becomes reality there is then an issue, depending on what the fantasy is!