Friends on mylot

@dpk262006 (58679)
Delhi, India
April 2, 2007 7:38am CST
I would like to know whether any of your friend here on mylot could become your real life friend? Or Had you tried that your mylot friends could also become your real time friends, if possible. If you succeeded in making a mylot friend to your real friend, then please let me know your experiences about your friendship. Thanks in advance.
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8 responses
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
3 Apr 07
i am sure that a few people that i met here in my lot could become a real life friends for me. i do not know if it would happen because the people i am talking about are living very far from where i am at. but we do have alote of similiar approaches to life.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
3 Apr 07
Thanks, liranlgo for your thoughts. Am I in the (waiting)list of your frineds who can one day turn into your real friend? Deepak (+) rated.
@liranlgo (5752)
• Israel
5 May 07
You sure are Deepak, you did not have to ask what you already know:) Thank you for this Br:))
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@SONALIKA (573)
• India
5 May 07
sure deepak,it is possible.on mylot people meet with similar views or to learn something good from each other.we all discuss our problems anmd confusions at this place.so as it is said a frnd in need is a frnd indeed.so we all are real friends.don't you feel so?
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
10 May 07
I regret I could not see your response earlier. Sonalika....I beg to differ with your last sentence.....that "so we all are real friends.don't you feel so?" You see there are certain things which we cannot share or tell with friends here on mylot. The most important is 'trust'. I would like to tell you...when I sent a private message to one of my friedns here....what reply I received....that friend said- "I cannot trust strangers". I mean to say if I asked something to that fellow (please do not ask me the name of that fellow...because otherwise that fellow is outstanding)that fellow just refused to reply or share the information on the grounds that since we are communicating on the 'net'...I cannot be trusted by him/her. You know how bad I felt that I cannot tell you..in words. I on my part can simply say that I am very honest and sincere in my approach....but I have no proof to substantiate that I am an honest person...I mean I cannot send a certificate or such thing to that fellow to prove ....look yaar I am completely honest and I will not do any harm to you...But this kind of problem I won't face with my real friends....they can see me in blood and flesh...they can see my gestures and watch me closely.....they know my family etc. (HOpe you would have understood what I wanted to convey) But I am very optimistic that if I continue with my honest and sincere efforts I would definitely be able to convert some mylot friends here (who are in my list) as a real friends....and if possible, that includes you also. deepak
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@maribel1218 (3084)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
I did gained credible and sincere friends here on mylot and one of them is mary anne who send me a angel gift thru local courier and I really expect her to see in flesh one of these coming days. I think mylot is not a forum alone but a forum which you can be with yourself and gained a real lifetime friends.
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@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
3 Apr 07
I have got a friend like you who is more supportive than real friend. Thanks for your response and for being my friend. Deepak
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@maribel1218 (3084)
• Philippines
3 Apr 07
I did gained credible and sincere friends here on mylot and one of them is mary anne who send me a angel gift thru local courier and I really expect her to see in flesh one of these coming days. I think mylot is not a forum alone but a forum which you can be with yourself and gained a real lifetime friends.
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@lonely_f16 (2146)
• Philippines
2 Apr 07
no i haven't tried that my friends here in mylot would be my friends in real life...
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@whyaskq (7523)
• Singapore
2 Apr 07
In my opinion, it is possible mylot friends can be real friends. It is only a matter of time and how one build and nuture the friendship. It all depends on how sincere you are. It is easier if you find one within your own area. It's easier to meet up and catch up from there. I have real friends in mylot, but we were already friends before mylot :P
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@worthy (2413)
• India
10 May 07
It hasn't happened with me so far.I ahven't met any of the mulot friends in real life.If I might have by mistake then i haven't recognized.It doesn't matter to me much.I like to meet them here on mylot.That's enough for me.
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
10 May 07
It is very possible here mylot to happen, as long as mylot is still here and there is still a chance to meet people and friends here that we could consider to be our real friends in real life. The distance is never a hindrance if two people were destined to be friends they will still be friends in the end and thats true to those who have been the given the chance and was able to meet despite the odds. I wish I could also have someone here on mylotwhere I can share the same views and opinions and even share my life with. Sharing one's life to others is a way of serving them, the way how we treat people here on mylot. We spend time and effort to answer the discussions here. I often find myself get very affected when the posts that I read are all about personla issues and if involved someone hurt and someone being cheated on and I end p trying to give the possible words of wisdom that I can give to them as if they know me. I just love the way people ere show their concern for otheers here here on mylot and I hope this will continue as the days goes by. hope you have a nice day!
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
10 May 07
Very beautifully written and a real quality response...which I appreciated very much. I exactly share your feelings that we should have someone here as our true friend with whom we could share our joys and sorrows in whom we could confide in. we could tell him/her our secrets with a faith and trust.Yes, I agree with you that distance should not be a hinderance. I am really touched by your marvellously written and splendidly worded response. Have a nice Day. Take care and I hope we will continue to share our joys and sorrows and our inner feelings with each other. Thanks very much. (+) rated. Deepak
@Zelmarq (12607)
• Cebu City, Philippines
10 May 07
Thank for the compliment, I have not expected to hear tis very postive comment from you. Thank very much for the positive rating.